Beloved Austin Rabbi Monty Eliasov (z”l) died peacefully on Shabbat, July 20, after a brief illness, at age 78. What follows is a remembrance, based on the memorial eulogy by Ms. Salkana Schindler, MSN, RN.

Arnold Montgomery Eliasov (z”l), known to most of us as Rabbi Monty, was born in 1946 in the Eastern Cape Province of South Africa. He came from a family of Jewish merchants and farmers; he grew up in both a deeply rural environment and in a seaside city. 

At sixteen Monty came to the U.S. to study at the Telshe Yeshiva Talmudic Academy near Cleveland, Ohio. He studied there for four years and then attended Yeshiva University in New York, where he received his BA. He went on to receive his M.A. in Judaic Studies at The Jewish Theological Seminary.  

Rabbi Monty was learned in both modern and ancient Jewish traditions. He was drawn to Rabbi Zalman Shachter-Shalomi, (z”l) renowned founder of Jewish Renewal, and studied Kabbalah and Hasidic prayer forms with Reb Zalman.

Prior to his rabbinic ordination, R” Monty served many years as a Director of Religious Education in both Conservative and Reform synagogue schools. When he moved to Austin, he became the beloved teacher and the Education Director for The Heart of Texas Havurah. 

In 1998, Rabbi Monty received rabbinic ordination from Rabbi Gershon Winkler, Renewal rabbi and director of the Director of the Walking Stick Institute; Rabbi Monty’s first ordination took place at Reb Gershon’s retreat center in New Mexico. 

In March of 2000, Reb Gershon came to Austin and conducted a second, more formal, ordination ceremony for Rabbi Monty, shortly after which he was installed as the Rabbi for the Havurah. This primarily Reconstructionist congregation, which became Congregation Shalom Rav (CSR) in 2002, was enlivened by Rabbi Monty’s Jewish Renewal perspective and was filled with joyous music. Rabbi Monty LOVED music and it was one of his primary ways to connect with the Divine. He loved to sing and play the guitar, and he loved collaborating with Barbara Taft and Abraham Davidson (Shirat Halev, and the former music directors for CSR) on their music.

Rabbi Monty was a brilliant and gifted scholar, a dedicated disciple of the Baal Shem Tov, a deeply spiritual, wise man, and a rabbi who was courageous in ushering into the world ideas that many traditional Jews would consider radical. 

A radical is defined as “a person who advocates thorough or complete reform.” It is also someone who goes to the root of things for his or her information.

Rabbi Monty was proud of being a radical and claimed that. In fact, he said, with good humor: “I’m a radical, as was the Baal Shem Tov, and in honor of him, I often eat radishes.” [The etymological origin of the word radish is radix, which is also the root of the word ‘radical.’]

Rabbi Monty loved to connect people and connect with people, regardless of their background. Rabbi Monty conducted over 500 weddings and was one of the first to conduct – and co-officiate! – interfaith weddings and life cycle events; he was proud that one of the first weddings he led with co-lead was with a priest. One of his main beliefs was that Judaism should not exclude but include and cooperate alongside the rest of society. 

He brought to each service a profound depth of Torah and Zohar scholarship and a spiritual understanding that surpassed many spiritual leaders. His ability to access ancient texts and make sense of things with such insight was amazing. He gathered information and with his spiritual knowledge and vision, he wove things together to help people understand Judaism and reach their spirituality in deeper and more meaningful ways.

In the words of Cantorial soloist and Rabbinic student, Laura Lenes: 

“Rabbi Monty was one-of-a-kind!  His passionate prayer and deep devotion to finding the truth and teaching it to those who are seeking light brought insight and wisdom to all encounters with him!  His spirit was always seeking and giving, and he created a community that did the same.”

One of Reb Monty’s greatest joys for the last 20+ years was being with Emme Lou, his God-Granddaughter. About eight years ago, for a school project, Emme Lou interviewed him. He said: 

“Rabbis can marry and have children if so blessed. I followed the path of the Galilean sage Simon Ben Azzai which is the rare path of being a Jewish monk. With the world becoming more secular, I sensed that I needed a life devoted to Spirit & the Word.”

Of Emme Lou, he said:  

“Literally, without having a God grandchild, I would not have acquired a heart which expanded into knowing how to help people. I had to learn that I have to show up both for all the celebrations, and for all the challenges. God also then showed me how the Holy Spirit is actually His Daughter! [in other words, God the Daughter.]

This insight, supported by verses in the Hebrew Bible has changed my whole orientation, both towards religion and towards my own faith journey.” 

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At the moment of his stroke, R” Monty was with other residents in his home at the Highland Estates: spontaneously, he rose from his chair and danced ecstatically, singing and twirling, his hands in the air. 

Rabbi Monty sang and danced his soul to God.

His memory IS a blessing…

Congregation Shalom Rav will host a Memorial event for Rabbi Monty via Zoom on Sunday, August 25.  Further information is HERE.

If you wish to make a donation in memory of Rabbi Monty, you can do so HERE.  All donations will be directed to the Mitzvah Fund.  Rabbi Monty was passionate about helping others and created the Mitzvah committee about 20 years ago, we now have a small dedicated fund for the committee to draw from.